Wednesday, January 30, 2008

...A Rose by Any Other Name...

What's in a name? That which we call a rose
By any other name would smell as sweet;
Romeo & Juliet (II,ii,1-2)


What's in a name?......I'll tell you......a lot of head scratching and frustration.

As the arrival of our third child is drawing nigh, Heather and I have tried our darndest to choose a name for our emerging little girl.

With the first two, we had many options and ultimately narrowed it down and had decided a while before their arrival. For some reason, we can't pin down a name for this one. And she's due in less than a week.

One thing we have learned, is that if you do have options on the table, don't share them with inquiring strangers. Why? Because if the child is not physically on the earth, but still in-utero, these discerning people feel the freedom to pass judgment on your name ideas, even if you didn't ask for their opinion. "Hhmmm, I don't know about that...", and "Ugghh, it's sounds too old-fashioned", or "No, that sounds like a dog's name". The insults go on...

For this very reason, we have learned to not share the name options of our future daughter, except with close family and friends, until she is physically out of the womb. At which point, nobody would dare pass judgment, to your face anyway, on the baby's name.

So for now, her name is........as Cole has decided.........Baby Horsey!

2 comments:

martha corinna said...

Amen on the people passing judgment. I would never think to tell someone their name sucked, especially with the excuse of it being too old fashioned. People have said that to me (obviously all of our children's names are old fashioned), and I've replied, "well, I guess you don't like the name Martha then".
I'm excited to hear what you name your girl, you two have great taste.

You probably can out sing my Axle Rose impression because your voice rocks, but my hip swivel will take the cake.

Nathan said...

Yes. DO NOT question Herrick baby name ideas...
bad idea.
J/K
Little Nathana is going to be BEAUTIFUL!
Barack Nathana is a winner all around!